Beyond any advance directives, what you most need is an Advocate or “Surrogate”
(Surrogate is the AZ legal term, sometimes called “proxy” or "agent" or “advocate”).
Having encountered some people in Tucson who are alone and have no one to represent them, I'm willing to fill that
void. I am available for hire to serve as your advocate/surrogate/proxy should you become institutionalized
in a care facility or hospital. As such, I will do my utmost to make sure that, in terms of medical care or
treatment, you absolutely get only what you want and do not get what you do not want!
The sad fact is
that advance directives alone do not work. A growing body of evidence that suggests your instructions are all too often
ignored when it comes to end of life care.
I maintain that one needs an advocate even when not terminally ill or
is not yet unable to speak for oneself. To be a "patient" is to be acted upon, and it is extremely difficult to
be assertive, thorough, and fully in charge of your care when distressed and in a hospital or care facility.
you choose to represent you, it is best if your advocate:
Is legal with Medical Durable Power of Attorney;
Is thoroughly familiar with your wishes – physical, emotional, and spiritual state -- communicates
often and is give specific information, at least every 6 months;
Is introduced to others involved
with your care;
Has original signed documents of any advance directives;
not an immediate relative;
Has people skills, impeccable integrity, and honesty,
and is completely trustworthy;
Is articulate, assertive, and can be a SOB or witch on wheels if necessary.
The terminally ill in our society are subject to and vulnerable to the will of others. All too often they are
dehumanized and marginalized,
drugged and plugged,
medicalized and bureaucratized,
needlessly emaciated and overly sedated,
alive but deprived,
isolated and denigrated,
neglected and rejected,
used and abused, and even adroitly exploited.
I would contract with you to serve as your
advocate, accepting in advance private payment exclusively; I would not be reimbursed by Medicare, Medicaid, HMO's, insurance
or anyone else involved with care. Additionally, it is my policy as Advocate to never to accept referral fees, or "kick-backs"
from home health care agencies, assisted living facilities, nursing homes, physicians, attorneys, or vendors. In this way,
I advocate strictly for my clients and maintain my integrity and total independence. Please contact me at 520-235-5646 (J-O-H-N)
or firstname.lastname@example.org for a listing of exactly what services are provided or for a copy of the most recent fee schedule.