I'll be leading several classes with OASIS, Pima County, and Pima
Community College.
Below are brief descriptions of the classes
presently scheduled, and of course I'd be glad to answer any questions you may have.
I hope you and those you know may plan to attend.
Registration for OASIS opens late April (or maybe earlier).
To register, call The OASIS Institute, Phone:
520-322-5627
or go to http://www.oasisnet.org/Cities/West/TucsonAZ.aspx.
What is OASIS?
OASIS is a unique educational program for adults age 50-plus
(yet anyone can attend) who want to learn,
grow and explore new ideas. We promote successful
aging through lifelong learning,
health programs and volunteer engagement. (Sponsored in Tucson by
TMC, Macy's Foundation, and the Junior League.)
https://www.oasisnet.org/Cities/West/TucsonAZ/Classes.aspx
The classes are:
The following is a schedule of my classes for April
through July with OASIS and Pima County classes for Spring and
Summer of 2013.
I shall also be teaching "What Nobody Ever
Told You About Advance Directives" and "Living With Dying"
with Pima Community College in October and November of 2013:
https://bannerweb.pima.edu/pls/pima/az_tw_zipsched.p_search_results
Phone PCC Continuing Education: 520-206-6579 Email: continuinged@pima.edu
Through OASIS:
April
Class #:368
Term: 2013-1
Title: Anything But Death
Days: Wednesday, 4/10/2013
1 session
Time: 10:00 - 11:00
Location: Mt View Retirement Village
Enrollment minimum: 5 Maximum: 25
Presenter: John Abraham, M.Div., F.T.
Description: That is what we
call it; anything but what it really is. (Expired? Passed Away?) Learn
how to cope with and educate others in our death-denying
culture; why it is so
difficult to grieve appropriately and how to best live with loss. We can only avoid
loss
if we die as an infant or live without caring. Otherwise, loss is inevitable and
a natural part of life. Learn excellent
coping skills.
Student notes: Please bring pen and paper.
May
Class #:440 Term: 2013-2
Title: The
Spirituality of Death and Dying
Days: Thursday, 5/23/2013
1 session
Time: 10:00 - 11:00
Location: OASIS at Junior League
Enrollment minimum:
5 Maximum: 25
Presenter: John Abraham, M.Div., F.T.
Description: Have you watched a sunset lately and wondered about
the meaning in life? Ever wonder
about your purpose? Spirituality is the fundamental essence of any valid religious
and
philosophical system. It is an undeniable part of human experience. It is common to
all yet is developed and
integrated into daily life by relatively few. Although
spirituality is generally related to religion and can be interrelated,
one can be
spiritual without being religious. Come explore.
Student notes: Please bring pen and paper.
Class #:449 Term:
2013-2
Title: Funeral Consumers Alliance -- Be Informed & Rest In Peace
Days: Friday, 5/30/2013
1 session
Time: 10:00 - 11:00
Location: OASIS at Junior League
Enrollment minimum: 5 Maximum: 25
Presenter: John Abraham, M.Div.,
F.T.
Description: Be prepared and make informed decisions for the inevitable. Funeral Consumers Alliance
(FCA)
is the only 501(c)(3) nonprofit organization dedicated to protecting a
consumer's right to choose a meaningful, dignified,
affordable funeral. FCA offers
education and advocacy to consumers nationwide and is not affiliated with the funeral
industry. Their website is full of information and advice to help you plan ahead.
There is a strong
Tucson chapter among the many chapters throughout the country.
Come and learn how FCA can help you.
Student notes: Please bring pen and paper.
June
Class #:452 Term: 2013-2
Title: What is A Good Death?
Days: Thursday, 6/27/2013
1 session
Time: 10:00 - 11:00
Location: OASIS
at Junior League
Enrollment minimum: 5 Maximum:
35
Presenter: John Abraham, M.Div., F.T.
Description: Our society has no standard, no widely held concept of what
constitutes a noble death,
a virtuous death, a dignified death and therefore a good death. This has not always
been
true. We'll explore some aspects of goodness surrounding death, definitions of a
good death, the least-worst death,
and our own concepts. I'm not sure there really is
a good death. After all, who wants to die? Who wants those they love
to die?
Student notes: Please bring pen and paper.
Class #:451 Term: 2013-2
Title: What Nobody Ever Told You About Advance Directives.
Days: Thursday,
6/13/2013 - 6/20/2013
2 sessions
Time:
10:00 - 11:00
Location: OASIS at Junior League
Enrollment minimum: 5 Maximum: 25
Presenter: John Abraham, M.Div., F.T.
Description: Most of us will die a managed death. This class will
teach you to equip yourself with knowledge and have your wishes honored regarding end-of-life care. The appalling
fact is that 70% to 80% of the time, your wishes will NOT be honored, even with a living will or durable medical power
of attorney. Discover how you can change this! We will also explore how our culture contributes to the need
for such directives.
Student
notes: Please bring pen and paper.
July
Class
#:236 Term: 2013-2
Days: Tuesday, 7/09/2013
Title: The Right to Die Peacefully with Dignity
1 session
Time:
10:00 - 11:00
Location: OASIS at Junior League
Enrollment minimum:
5 Maximum: 40
Presenter:
John Abraham, M.Div., F.T.
Description: Explore a basic human right: the right to death with dignity. We
shall examine
managed death in this country and how it affects
you and those you love. Learn about the growing right-to-die
movement:
history, changes, and current status of the many
organizations working towards this goal. Discover local chapters
of related organizations, and how you might like to be involved.
I also have classes offered through Pima
County
Two Classes offered through Pima County
Location, Dates,
and Times are listed below each class.
Special Interest Classes
Pima County Natural Resources, Parks & Recreation
Register at http://www.pima.gov/nrpr/classes/index.htm
LIVING WITH DYING
What Nobody Ever Told You About Advance Directives
Instructor: John Abraham, Certified Fellow in Thanatology
How to prepare for death – “Not
‘If’ but ‘When”.
Most of us, about 80%, will die some sort of managed
death. The best manager
is you! This class will
teach you how to have your wishes honored regarding
end-of-life care. The appalling fact
is that 70% to
80% of the time, your wishes will NOT unfortunately
be honored, even with a living will or durable
medical
power of attorney. Discover how you can change this!
If you know how, you can make sure your wishes ARE
honored. Learn the importance of an “advocate” and
how to select, equip, and empower your advocate and
yourself, and how to navigate hospitalization. Contact
John at 520-235-5646 or jlavet@earthlink.net.
Class Code Location Date Time
Fee
2-521JA NWAC-303 Sun 3/24 4:00-5:30 p.m. $20
2-522JA NWAC-303 Fri 3/29 4:30-6:00 p.m.
$20
2-126JA FW-MPR1 Mon 4/1 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
2-523JA NWAC-303 Mon 4/15 1:00-2:30 p.m. $20
2-127JA FW-MPR1
Thu 4/18 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
3-520JA NWAC-303 Mon 4/29 12:30-2:00 p.m. $20
3-125JA FW-MPR1 Fri 5/24 4:00-5:30 p.m. $20
3-126JA FW-MPR1
Fri 6/14 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
4-520JA NWAC-303 Tue 7/9 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
4-125JA FW-MPR1 Fri 8/9 9:30-11:00 a.m.
$20
4-126JA FW-MPR1
Fri 8/9 4:00-5:30 p.m. $20
Death: A Comprehensive Overview
Instructor: John Abraham, Certified Fellow
in Thanatology
A Natural, Inevitable Part of Life: A Death Salad.
Classes include Anything But Death (That’s
what we
call it. How to cope and to educate others in our deathdenying
culture), What is A Good Death? (We have
no
widely held concept of what constitutes a noble death,
a virtuous death), The Right to Die Peacefully With
Dignity (About the right-to-die movement), Death:
The Gift of Life (Death can be helpful), Learning to
Live With
Loss (Beyond regular bereavement groups.
What is normal and not normal? How long? How
can I help others? What is
the one major exception
to healthy bereavement? Different types of grief?),
Fun and Insightful: Jest Death-10 aspects
of humor in
death-related situations.
Class Code Location Dates
Time Fee
2-525JA NWAC-303 Sat 3/2–3/30 9:30-11:00 a.m.
$45
2-526JA NWAC-303 Fri 3/8-4/5 4:30-6:00 p.m. $45
2-527JA NWAC-303 Tue 3/19-4/16 9:00-10:30 a.m. $45
2-130JA
FW-MPR1 Mon 3/18-4/15 4:00- 5:30 p.m. $45
The
Right to Die Peacefully With Dignity
Instructor: John Abraham – Certified Fellowin Thanatology
Explore a basic human right: the right to death with dignity.We shall examine managed death in this country and how it affects
you and those you love. Learn about the growing right-to-die movement: history, changes, and current status of the many organizations
working towards this goal. Discover local chapters of related organizations, and how you might like to be involved. Contact
John at 520-235-5646 or jlavet@earthlink.net.
Class Code Location Dates
Time Fee
3-523JA NWAC-303
Tue 4/30 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
3-127JA FW-MPR1 Fri 5/10 4:00-5:30 p.m. $20
3-128JA FW-MPR1 Fri 6/7 9:30-11:00 a.m.
$20
4-127JA FW-MPR1 Fri 8/9 1:00-2:30 p.m. $20 4-523JA NWAC-303 Tue 7/9 4:00-5:30 p.m. $20
4-524JA NWAC-303 Sat
8/10 10:00-11:30 a.m. $20
Funeral Consumers Alliance – Be Informedand Rest In Peace
Instructor: John Abraham – Certified
Fellowin Thanatology
Be prepared and make informed decisions for the inev¬itable. Funeral Consumers Alliance (FCA)
is the only 501(c) (3) nonprofit organization dedicated to protect¬ing a consumer’s right to choose a meaningful,
dig¬nified, affordable funeral. FCA offers education and advocacy to consumers nationwide and is not affili¬ated with
the funeral industry. Information you need! This is a quick shopper’s training program for doing business with professional
death-care services that you may or may not choose to use. There is a strong local Tucson chapter among many nationally. Come
join us for this valued information. Contact John at 520-235-5646 or jlavet@earthlink.net.
Class Code Location
Dates Time
Fee
4-525JA NWAC-303 Tue 7/23 9:30-11:00 a.m. $20
4-526JA NWAC-303 Sat 8/10 1:00-2:30 p.m. $20
4-129JA
FW-MPR1 Fri 8/16 1:00-2:30 p.m. $20
NWAC =
Northwest Art Center
7770 N. Shannon Rd.
Tucson (Corner of Shannon and Magee)
FW = Flowing Wells Community Center
1660 W. Ruthrauff Rd.
Tucson (Wetmore,
Romero, and Ruthrauff intersection)
I hope to
see you in class!
Some
Comments from OASIS Evaluations:
"I was much impressed by your apparent strength, integrity, and knowledge."
"John
made this topic knowledgeable, interesting, and with humor."
"John Abraham has the information and the
ability to intelligently convey all we need to know about this complex topic."
"John's class has been
helpful and informative for those of us who want to prepare for a compassionate and graceful exit for ourselves and our loved
ones."
"A good balance between general advice and personal reflections was kept."
"He
was flexible, knowledgeable, and responsive to those in class."
"Very responsive to questions and very
well educated and experienced in the topic."
"From someone who already attended two of my classes: I
got a lot of new information -- glad I came."
"I liked the down to earth quality of your presentation,
the slang and humanity that ring a bell for all of us."
"Now I'm movitated to send a message to a friend
whose husband died exactly a month ago, one of your helpful suggestions."
"Thank you John for your well presented class. I enjoyed your pace and the materials you
covered,
it is clear that you are very well informed and impassioned about your topics...."
"I just wanted to thank you again for a thought-provoking presentation given with humor and
compassion."
"You were very
responsive to the questions and concerns of all of us in the audience. I wish you well and may very well call upon you in
the future."
"Dear John,
Please accept my sincere appreciation for your contribution
to our first effort to present an End of Life Seminar this
year.
Folks shared their thanks with me so pass their words to you.
Your ministry to us on this topic of dying was
so very important
for those that attended...."
"Thanks for a realistic appraisal of death and a
handout that should help discussion about your area of expertise."
"In my opinion, this class was: □outstanding
□average □unsatisfactory"
The vast majority
indicate "□outstanding" with some adding their own category of "very good."